Heading out to the movies. Taking little man to see Alvin and the chimpmunks.
***To be continue***
Prince singing Ntuj no tuaj lawm
December 31, 2009
December 29, 2009
It's getting close...
Wow Christmas came and gone just like that! We had a great Christmas - just the three of us. It seems booboo was just counting down the days til xmas day and now it's over. I had been off since the 24th. Sad to say but we ended up not going to the in-laws anymore. Hubby had to work on xmas eve. It would be too much to gather everything and drive 12 hours down on xmas eve to arrive on xmas morning and try to make it back the following Monday. Mil was pretty disappointed. I felt super terrible! I hate to see my in laws disappointed and hurt. If it was all up to me, I would have gone down without hesitation. Anyway, we'll make it up to her.
WARNING: Long entry...
Anyway, we went over to Em and Thai's place on xmas eve to deliver Julius' present and let's just say it was not what I expected at all. On our way there, I called/txt'd them constantly to let them know that we were stopping by to drop off Julius's present. Both of them did not pick up their cell phones at all. I left them both voice/text messages but still no response. I figured Em had to be home and Thai at work. We arrived at their apartment complex and I noticed their living room lights are on. I thought of nothing but only that maybe Em was feeding or giving Julius a bath and didn't hear her phone. So I got out of my car and went to their door and knocked. After a few knocks I heard a male voice that I didn't recognized but thought it might be Thai's voice. Maybe he's got the flu and he lost his voice (I don't know). He yelled out, "who is it?", I responded in confusion and being funny, "what do you mean who is it?". He asked one more time and I said, "who's this?". So then he said, "sorry you have the wrong house", and I quickly responded in confusion, "I do?". Still confused as to why he would tell me I got the wrong house. Ok at this point, I really thought I got the wrong house because I hardly visit them. Then as I stepped away from the door, and Thai calls me back. I answered and asked him where he was and he told me he was at work. I asked him where Em was and he said she should be home. I am totally confused at this point and then I proceeded the conversation and asked him if there's anyone with Em and he said yes, her friend and bf. Then I told him that I knocked on the door and some male told me that I had the wrong house and also asked him to confirm his apt #. After he confirmed the number, I didn't have the wrong house. Anyway, told Thai that we stopped by to drop off Julius's present. He told me that he would try to get a hold of Em. A few minutes later, Em opens the door and she's on the phone with Thai all angry and cussing. Anyhow, I was in shocked that someone would tell me that I had the wrong house. Still shocked that they didn't just open the door to see who it was before saying that I had the wrong house. Honestly, I was a little hurt when I saw Em opened the door and on the phone with Thai. In my mind, I'm thinking...I would never NOT OPEN the door for them, why would they to me? Ok, still shocked and confused and not really knowing what Thai and Em were saying to each other. I ran back to my car and grabbed the present and booboo got out of the car and followed me to their apt. After I handed the present to Em, she was really mad and yelled out, "Aunt Joua, WTF did you say to Tiny?" right in front of her gf's bf. I was shocked to hear this because my son was right behind me and heard all of this. Then her gf's bf apologize that he didn't know who I was and he said that he asked Em if she was expecting anyone and she said no. Therefore he didn't open the door. Em insisted that I come in and meet her gf and the bf but honestly, I pretty much felt like a fool by then. I couldn't face her friend and bf after she made it sound like I said something to Thai and he's cussing her out. I really don't know what was said between them two but yeah when she yelled out, "WTF did you to Tiny?". I told her all I said was that they (meaning whomever it was that opened the door) didn't open the door and told me that I had the wrong house. Basically, this whole thing was a miscommunication that blew up in proportion. I felt like I should have NEVER dropped by, by surprise that is and maybe none of this would have happened. But we just couldn't wait to give Julius his gift.
Anyway, Em did call/txt and apologized about the whole thing. Even though I was confused, shocked, and a little hurt I didn't let it get to me. It was all a misunderstanding/miscommunication only. No worries. However, I was a little disappointed that my son had to witnessed all of this. Later he asked me why his SIL Thai was angry. Don't worry, I explained everything to him and it's all ok now. I kid you not, kids are smarter than you think. Don't ever underestimate them or their thinking. **wink**
Anyway, Christmas Eve/Day was very nice. Woke up to make breakfast and then opened our gifts. Booboo loved EVERYTHING we got him. It's a good feeling when you can fulfil their wish list. hahaha
Day after Christmas we went shopping and bought a ton of xmas supplies for next year. It was sooo dirt cheap. Everything was 75% off so yea I spent no more then $1.49 for each individual item. The only expensive thing I bought is the BIG storage box that I needed to store all the stuff I just bought. Yep, I'm stocking up for next year. I can't wait. Instead of the traditional xmas red, white, blue, green theme, our color for next year is royal blue and silver!!!! Whoohoo!! lol Pretty much the whole weekend was spent inside watching movies - from morning til late morning the next day.
Saturday and Sunday night, headed to the recreational gym and played volleyball. Sunday had the best turnout though. There were people that I've never seen before who came by and played. I'm just happy that everyone knows how to play. I was also very happy that my hubby tagged along, too! He was SUPER sored afterwards. Hahaha...reminds me of me the first couple of days I went to play.
WARNING: Long entry...
Anyway, we went over to Em and Thai's place on xmas eve to deliver Julius' present and let's just say it was not what I expected at all. On our way there, I called/txt'd them constantly to let them know that we were stopping by to drop off Julius's present. Both of them did not pick up their cell phones at all. I left them both voice/text messages but still no response. I figured Em had to be home and Thai at work. We arrived at their apartment complex and I noticed their living room lights are on. I thought of nothing but only that maybe Em was feeding or giving Julius a bath and didn't hear her phone. So I got out of my car and went to their door and knocked. After a few knocks I heard a male voice that I didn't recognized but thought it might be Thai's voice. Maybe he's got the flu and he lost his voice (I don't know). He yelled out, "who is it?", I responded in confusion and being funny, "what do you mean who is it?". He asked one more time and I said, "who's this?". So then he said, "sorry you have the wrong house", and I quickly responded in confusion, "I do?". Still confused as to why he would tell me I got the wrong house. Ok at this point, I really thought I got the wrong house because I hardly visit them. Then as I stepped away from the door, and Thai calls me back. I answered and asked him where he was and he told me he was at work. I asked him where Em was and he said she should be home. I am totally confused at this point and then I proceeded the conversation and asked him if there's anyone with Em and he said yes, her friend and bf. Then I told him that I knocked on the door and some male told me that I had the wrong house and also asked him to confirm his apt #. After he confirmed the number, I didn't have the wrong house. Anyway, told Thai that we stopped by to drop off Julius's present. He told me that he would try to get a hold of Em. A few minutes later, Em opens the door and she's on the phone with Thai all angry and cussing. Anyhow, I was in shocked that someone would tell me that I had the wrong house. Still shocked that they didn't just open the door to see who it was before saying that I had the wrong house. Honestly, I was a little hurt when I saw Em opened the door and on the phone with Thai. In my mind, I'm thinking...I would never NOT OPEN the door for them, why would they to me? Ok, still shocked and confused and not really knowing what Thai and Em were saying to each other. I ran back to my car and grabbed the present and booboo got out of the car and followed me to their apt. After I handed the present to Em, she was really mad and yelled out, "Aunt Joua, WTF did you say to Tiny?" right in front of her gf's bf. I was shocked to hear this because my son was right behind me and heard all of this. Then her gf's bf apologize that he didn't know who I was and he said that he asked Em if she was expecting anyone and she said no. Therefore he didn't open the door. Em insisted that I come in and meet her gf and the bf but honestly, I pretty much felt like a fool by then. I couldn't face her friend and bf after she made it sound like I said something to Thai and he's cussing her out. I really don't know what was said between them two but yeah when she yelled out, "WTF did you to Tiny?". I told her all I said was that they (meaning whomever it was that opened the door) didn't open the door and told me that I had the wrong house. Basically, this whole thing was a miscommunication that blew up in proportion. I felt like I should have NEVER dropped by, by surprise that is and maybe none of this would have happened. But we just couldn't wait to give Julius his gift.
Anyway, Em did call/txt and apologized about the whole thing. Even though I was confused, shocked, and a little hurt I didn't let it get to me. It was all a misunderstanding/miscommunication only. No worries. However, I was a little disappointed that my son had to witnessed all of this. Later he asked me why his SIL Thai was angry. Don't worry, I explained everything to him and it's all ok now. I kid you not, kids are smarter than you think. Don't ever underestimate them or their thinking. **wink**
Anyway, Christmas Eve/Day was very nice. Woke up to make breakfast and then opened our gifts. Booboo loved EVERYTHING we got him. It's a good feeling when you can fulfil their wish list. hahaha
Day after Christmas we went shopping and bought a ton of xmas supplies for next year. It was sooo dirt cheap. Everything was 75% off so yea I spent no more then $1.49 for each individual item. The only expensive thing I bought is the BIG storage box that I needed to store all the stuff I just bought. Yep, I'm stocking up for next year. I can't wait. Instead of the traditional xmas red, white, blue, green theme, our color for next year is royal blue and silver!!!! Whoohoo!! lol Pretty much the whole weekend was spent inside watching movies - from morning til late morning the next day.
Saturday and Sunday night, headed to the recreational gym and played volleyball. Sunday had the best turnout though. There were people that I've never seen before who came by and played. I'm just happy that everyone knows how to play. I was also very happy that my hubby tagged along, too! He was SUPER sored afterwards. Hahaha...reminds me of me the first couple of days I went to play.
December 18, 2009
wow the year is almost over...
I can't believe that this year is coming to an end. Working Mon-Wed next week then off to the in-laws until next year year!! Looking back, where did 2009 go? What did I do all year? Let's see:
- visit mom during Mother's Day week
- purchased a boat (fishing all summer long)
- visit mom during Halloween week (basically lived at hospital)
- enrolled Prince in soccer clubs (indoor n outdoor)
- gained weight :-(
Ok, that's all I can think of right now but that doesn't look like a decent list. Basically nothing was accomplished. oh geez!!!! What is wrong with me?
I am looking forward to a new and better year - 2010. It's been a long time and it's time for another one. We are planning baby #2. My son has been begging for a sibling for a few years now. He is excited! I can't wait. I am currently seeing an infertility/fertility specialist. I really like her. She seems to have lots of knowledge in this field. I already had my first visit and it went well. We signed up for my hubby's insurance, which supposedly paying 50% for fertility treatments so that's a plus. We can't really start treatment until January. Like I said I am quite excited. Can't wait to have another baby.
BTW, I'm done with Christmas shopping(a couple of weeks ahead of schedule this year). Yay!!! Will never do the last minute shopping EVER again. It can be brutal trying to fight the rowdy last minute Christmas shoppers too! Not that I expected but there's nothing under the tree for me. I know sad...but like I said, I don't expect anything. And mostly the spirit is for my little man. LOL
On another note, my husband had a dream that I cheated on him. LMAO Really? He couldn't wait until morning so he had to wake me up in the middle of the night to tell me about it. OH lord! Well, during Valentine weeekend, we attended one of his good friend's funeral in Spokane, WA and I encountered my first love after almost twenty years. I told hubby that ex bf complimented on my looks and little did I know, he was jealous so he decided not to attend the second day of funeral. Instead he drove us to Seattle and spent some family times. And later I heard from the ex bf's nieces that there had been some rumors that I was ex bf mistress (at that time). How stupid of Hmong people to assume and gossip without getting the facts straight. Also the ex bf's wife got all dressed up to check out the mistress the next day. WTF? Hahaha remember my hubby took us to Seattle instead of staying for another day at the funeral. hahaha I found this all too funny but not the hubby. He found it disturbing and probably why he had a dream about me cheating. And if you're wondering...no I don't believe in infidelity so no such thing in my dictionary.
Geez, some people are just so annoying and irritating. How do you stop being nice to people and stop having such a white heart? People take me for granted I swear!! This will be a lesson to learn in 2010!!!
Before I forget...been missing my ma and pa dearly. Been crying myself to sleep again.
~Thanksgiving~
- visit mom during Mother's Day week
- purchased a boat (fishing all summer long)
- visit mom during Halloween week (basically lived at hospital)
- enrolled Prince in soccer clubs (indoor n outdoor)
- gained weight :-(
Ok, that's all I can think of right now but that doesn't look like a decent list. Basically nothing was accomplished. oh geez!!!! What is wrong with me?
I am looking forward to a new and better year - 2010. It's been a long time and it's time for another one. We are planning baby #2. My son has been begging for a sibling for a few years now. He is excited! I can't wait. I am currently seeing an infertility/fertility specialist. I really like her. She seems to have lots of knowledge in this field. I already had my first visit and it went well. We signed up for my hubby's insurance, which supposedly paying 50% for fertility treatments so that's a plus. We can't really start treatment until January. Like I said I am quite excited. Can't wait to have another baby.
BTW, I'm done with Christmas shopping(a couple of weeks ahead of schedule this year). Yay!!! Will never do the last minute shopping EVER again. It can be brutal trying to fight the rowdy last minute Christmas shoppers too! Not that I expected but there's nothing under the tree for me. I know sad...but like I said, I don't expect anything. And mostly the spirit is for my little man. LOL
On another note, my husband had a dream that I cheated on him. LMAO Really? He couldn't wait until morning so he had to wake me up in the middle of the night to tell me about it. OH lord! Well, during Valentine weeekend, we attended one of his good friend's funeral in Spokane, WA and I encountered my first love after almost twenty years. I told hubby that ex bf complimented on my looks and little did I know, he was jealous so he decided not to attend the second day of funeral. Instead he drove us to Seattle and spent some family times. And later I heard from the ex bf's nieces that there had been some rumors that I was ex bf mistress (at that time). How stupid of Hmong people to assume and gossip without getting the facts straight. Also the ex bf's wife got all dressed up to check out the mistress the next day. WTF? Hahaha remember my hubby took us to Seattle instead of staying for another day at the funeral. hahaha I found this all too funny but not the hubby. He found it disturbing and probably why he had a dream about me cheating. And if you're wondering...no I don't believe in infidelity so no such thing in my dictionary.
Geez, some people are just so annoying and irritating. How do you stop being nice to people and stop having such a white heart? People take me for granted I swear!! This will be a lesson to learn in 2010!!!
Before I forget...been missing my ma and pa dearly. Been crying myself to sleep again.
~Thanksgiving~
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